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I am Now Quite Old in the Mission

Last Tuesday I was invited to participate in the Executive Council of the Mission. Here are the photos:

I was impressed that I am now quite old in the mission. Many people who were leaders when I came in have already gone home and those who were ending training when I arrived are now getting ready to go home. Elder Munhoz who was my Zone Leader in Casa Grande has gone home and Elder R. Costa (my second companion) goes home this transfer.

There were many baptismal interviews to do this week and I spent a few hours behind a desk in a nice little interview room in the chapel. I never thought how tiring interviews could be, must be why President Dalton is so tired on Mondays. In the end, Gilvan, an investigator of the Elders in my district got baptized and confirmed this week.

The work was a relentless charge this week to hit the standards of excellence. We destroyed two of them and yet again lacked people in the chapel. But now we are working like a raging fire. This week will be a success.

I talked a lot with Elder Friere about the subject of leadership in the mission and really in the Church. In the mission, I think I have learned to see how a person truly can lose themselves and be lost to “power”. I watched this happen with myself in the last transfer in Casa Grande and now I’m trying to learn more about how to be a leader, and truly a leader. I was impressed by the lesson on leadership that there was in the Book of Mosiah during my studies. It seems a constant study on the characteristics of leaders, both good and bad. King Benjamin, King Mosiah, Alma, King Noah, Amulon, Gideon, Ammon, all of them. I was impressed how the kingdom of Mosiah grew and prospered as his people loved him, and also why they loved him. They grew to love him because they felt a genuine concern that he had for them, and he didn’t have to micromanage the generation of wealth in the kingdom, it occurred naturally. Meanwhile, King Noah, he started off with an excellent kingdom, yet tried to manage everything and artificially generate personal gains through taxation and his deceiving priests. His kingdom prospered, yet was in a constant state of decay. This same duality I think can be applied to the drama that played out in the premortal life. Lucifer looked to force everyone into exaltation through micromanagement, making something natural artificial to produce unnatural results. The Savior instead looked to let the natural tendency of each individual soul to return to their celestial home drive the results. And the results are natural. These are things I think I only can have learned on the mission. As I talked with the other Elders last night about Moroni 7 I found myself supporting the idea that man and his soul is naturally good and inclined to do what is right. It is the flesh that seeks to do wrong, but the flesh is not the soul, rather a tool and instrument to be dominated by the soul. This in itself is a great change from my pre-mission ideology that man is a naturally evil creature that must be dominated and ruled over. The things we learn when serving; I’m grateful for the chance I have to serve!

You Must be Missing My Face

Time continues its ceaseless grind forward. This week was a fight, and I take it that we are to continue fighting. I do not know why now the difficulty to take people to sacrament meeting is so much greater. Well, actually, I know that it is just opposition. Elder Andrade and I had an emergency planning session Sunday afternoon and made a few plans to do a whole lot of things different. It basically includes restarting a teaching group and keeping maybe two or three people from the last group. It was interesting to see that everyone ended up going to the hospital Sunday Morning/Saturday Night…
We have Renata who is a really old investigator from when I was arriving in the mission. Her friend Bruna is a member of our ward who recently got her mission call to Brazil Belém. We hope to baptize Renata this week.
My area is fauvella, so I don’t take photos in the street. The other night it was cold, so I threw on my trench coat. As I was walking through the street I noticed a ton of people passing money quickly and hiding in the shadows as I passed. For the rest of the night, I returned to my old custom of walking with my coat open tapping on my name tag. I tap of my name tag because a story came down to me once that the Police in Rio de Janeiro once busted up a ton of fauvellas entering disguised as Mormon Missionaries, but they used fake name tags made of metal. I don’t know if that has happened here but I heard the missionaries in Rio tap the name tags to show they are real. Just to be safe I follow their lead.
Here the guessing that I am Asian is less. Now as time in the mission progresses I am more South American. The current favourite guess is that I am from Chile. Everyone says that the American Elders never get the accent right, but my accent is able to blend pretty well. I am happy for that.
The hardest thing I can see here currently, maybe it is a general problem, is that change is really slow going. Any type of innovation that gets suggested is really hard and slow to implement because it goes through a thousand meetings and still everyone tries to make it like the old way and not like the new way. That’s even hard for me because the General Authorities have said that the focus now is to teach more youth, I have such a hard time teaching youth. Like in Ward Council meetings everyone has to throw in their idea and make their speech. It’s almost the same problem I felt in MUN, I still feel it would run a whole lot smoother for one person to make a decision,  instead of endless debate and opinions.
It is interesting because sometimes you see people taking their traditions from other churches and almost adopting it, it’s somewhat interesting to see the cultural bleed. For example, one time a counselor in the bishopric started the meeting with the opening prayer. His opening prayer started by reciting The Lord’s Prayer, then continuing the prayer as normal. It was odd.
I had the opportunity this week to read over Jacob 5 and the Allegory of the Olive Trees. I found one passage interesting talking about how the grafted branches drew strength from the roots of the natural tree which were good. I took this to reason that it is important that we should always be looking to the good things that our ancestors did to strengthen us in our days. Even for converts, the work of Family History is important to help them receive strength from the other side of the veil and do the work for their dead so those “recent converts” on the other side can support them as well.
 I hope this letter finds you all well. Never stop reading the Book of Mormon it truly has the fullness of the gospel because it talks about the Atonement of Christ in a way that no other book of scripture does. Without the Atonement of Christ, what does the rest of the principles of the Gospel do for us? Without the Atonement even the Law of Moses remains dead because it is a dead law, it is only through the Atonement that the Gospel of Jesus Christ has a life.

It would seem my training at politicking is paying off as I was able to propose and defend an idea and a format to run an English class in the chapel meet potential investigators. It’s a new idea as our Noite da Integração is with quite little success at bringing anyone.

I am writing this earlier than usual because the Elders have arranged an opportunity for us all to play a game of RisK Imperial Rome Edition this P-Day so…. how could I say no?

I’ll attach some pictures as I got the feeling you all might be missing my face. Here’s the baptism of Canamarí I attended two weeks ago, some of my recent converts in Casa Grande came out to see me when they heard I would be passing through. Here’s the baptism of Ana some weeks ago too. And myself and Elder Andrade at the last temple trip.

Sons

Transfer calls came in yesterday I will stay in Casa Grande for a fourth transfer (a total of 6 months) and receive an Elder direct from the MTC, he will be my second son in the mission. I do not know his identity as I will only learn this in the middle of tomorrow’s meeting in Santo Amaro. I remain District Leaders so… it’ll be a very busy transfer training a brand new leader and a district of mostly new people. In fact I am now going to be the oldest person in the District. Myself and Elder Santos that is but we have the same amount of time in the mission, but I have marginal days in front of him because of MTC.

I made a goal to finish the Bible before the end of my mission in portuguese something I’ve never done in english. This week I finished the Pentatuch and I found some really fun scriptures. Thought Mom and Dad would like Deuteronomy 21:18-21. Thank goodness the Law of Moses was fulfilled. I think none of us would have survived.
It is odd to believe that the mission has almost completely changed in all this time. Now I’m the old guy. I believe I heard recently that Elder R. Santos is finishing up soon. Soon enough few of my comps will still be in the mission.
We can’t even walk in our house anyways because the neighbors the floor below complain at the slightest noise. Annoying but I need to be somewhat tolerant. I can’t exactly tell them that their discomfort isn’t really important to me and that no one tells me what to do in my house because I feel like that isn’t exactly in line with being a representative of Jesus Christ. So I just keep quiet and let other elders work with them, because if I talk to them there will be problems.

But in any case…. I’m getting a good hike in each day as we are walking up to São Rafael these days to find people that haven’t had much exposure to the missionaries. Hopefully it works because days without anyone letting me in to teach is driving me crazy. Especially in the rain with winter approaching.
Speaking of which, there have been crazy storms these days. Earlier in the week we hid from a hailstorm with hailstones the size of large marbles. When that lessened up the First Counselor in the Bishopric found us and asked for some help discovering why water was filling his house after a lightning bolt fell on top of his house. It was a cool day. That and Elder Jofre almost drowned above ground as we fought to get our gate open.
I don’t get too much chocolate craving problems….. I ate two days ago corn in milk with a bit of sugar because it is the end of the transfer and no one has money. Pizza is less nowadays because everyone’s become pão duro, mão de vaca, in short tight fisted. There are even disputes about who is buying toilet papers for the house. I buy toilet paper because even I have limits.

Fortunately my pants are holding up better than everyone else. It is confirmed by members that I am at present the fittest in my house. All the other elders in the house have a problem with their pants splitting down the middle.
My area here isn’t really an area that would have [tailored slacks]. I’ll go scouting on my way to see if there is anything in Santo Amaro. I might have to take a P-Day to go hunting for a tailor in Santo Amaro. If I get a suit tailored out here it won’t be used on the mission, I’ll wait until I get home to use it. But I was thinking about how I would style it. I got some ideas.
I imagine that Jayden (L.) and Tim get along well as they now share the same interests in sports. Unless Jayden is a Seahawks fan.
Time ending now. Love you all have a great week!

Closing off the Transfer

We closed off the transfer in the District. This week in the district 5 of the 6 baptisms in the zone were realized and the Zone Casa Grande was the Zone Batizadora this week in the President’s letter. Now that we’ve got that bit of Gloria dos Homens squared away I’ll continue with the rest of my letter.

I will stay in Casa Grande one more transfer and receive Elder Jofre from Argentina (I’m told). He has more time than me in the mission in fact he has two more transfers before he ends. I found it interesting that I am receiving him as recently we have encountered a family of Bolivans that is a little hard to communicate with, given I do not speak Spanish.

This morning I finished the Doctrine and Covenants for the first time in my life, really studying them. And what’s more, I studied them in Portuguese. It was a rough few days as I spend a few minutes in Book of Mormon and the Doctrine and Covenants and I found myself pushing through the Isaiah chapters, still understanding very little there. Waiting for the clarity Nephi talks about.
Hope all is well at home! I love you all!

Crazy Life

Still here in Casa Grande, obviously the transfer just started. I got to do my first two baptismal interviews this week in my district. Neither was baptized but it was a good experience with them and we are all hoping they will continue progressing to be baptized in the future.I Voted

We Americans here in the zone are all rather anxious about the outcome of tomorrow’s election. Most of us have sanity, others don’t, all in all I remain the only one who voted. The downside I have discovered about voting absentee is I do not get an “I Voted” Sticker. And I am feeling greatly excluded in that, but what can we do? Except for fasting and prayer.

It is hard to imagine that Bishop Padilla already has finished. I feel like he was called as Bishop only a short time ago. But the new bishopric I’m sure will do a great job. They’re all pretty young guys.

By the way let Tim know I used the pocket square this Sunday, I took some pictures but the lighting is terrible because I had so little time Sunday morning. But I was the only person in the stake using a pocket square.

We had a really cool thing happen. Actually it was last week. My companion and I were asked to give a blessing. However I had forgotten my oil at home because I switched to using a new-used bag and hadn’t put my oil in that bag. My companion had his vial, but we both knew it was empty as it fell and spilled everything on the floor and we had not refilled his vial. I looked inside and it was empty. But we really needed to give a blessing. So I took the vial in my hands and said a prayer to have at least one drop of oil in the vial to give the blessing, the smallest drop of oil. When I went to anoint the irmã we spilled quite a bit of oil on her head because the vial was filled. What follows is the account that my companion shared to President Dalton in his email last week and President, after asking our permission shared it in his email this week to the mission.

What Elder Fróes wrote:

“Essa semana, estávamos na casa da irmã Lucélia e ela pediu para nós dar uma benção na cunhada dela que estava doente e com o pé quebrado. Fomos ver o óleo no recipiente e não tinha nada, estava vazio. Elder Done pegou o recipiente e fez oração para que pelo menos tivesse uma gota para que pudéssemos abençoar esta mulher. Depois da oração, quando ele abriu para dar a benção, o reipiente estava cheio de óleo e conseguimos dar a benção. Foi ótimo o espirito lá dentro.”

Love you all!

Leaving the Area Stronger

itapecerica-da-serraWell we finished off this transfer strong with our tiny district of four elders having three baptisms yesterday. My companionship had 1 baptism, making the total number of baptisms in the past 6 weeks 5. In total here in Itapecerica da Serra I have had 9 baptisms. Photos will follow when I find a suitable LAN House. We also succeeded in bringing 17 people to church yesterday, 12 of which were investigators.

We baptized the children of families that are working to be married. Hopefully, soon they too will follow.  Yesterday was also the baptism of Silvio. Although not my area his is a great story I will write on a physical letter and send it as time is running quickly here and I want to tell you more things.

I heard last week that Antonio (from Figueira Grande) is active and very excited in his calling (the usher for Sacrament Meeting) and is preparing to get the Melchizedek Priesthood. In the next month William (my first baptism in this area) will receive the Melchizedek Priesthood next month. He is preparing to go on his mission.

I’m happy for the time I spent here in Itapecerica da Serra 1A, but I’m also ready and excited for the next area. Now for the transfer news…I will be sent to Casa Grande where I will serve as the District Leader and finish the training of my new companion, Elder Froés. This District has six companionship as it appears. Well let us go with this challenge.

As I live in São Paulo I encounter a lot of people from the Bahia. It is actually a little difficult to find people that were born and raised in São Paulo; majority are from other states, like Bahia. I find Bahia food so good! I am going to get the recipe for rabada (beef tail stew) and practice making it.

Hope all is well at home. Love you all!

I Got to Wear Jeans (smile)

And Transfer calls came in last night and thankfully I am staying yet another in this area. This area really has been a learning experience and I now think I have the hang of things to do something really great here. My companion, Elder G. Santos is getting transferred, so I have outlasted two companions in the area now. I will receive Elder Delgado from Cabo Verde Africa as my new companion tomorrow, yes another Cabo Verdiano 😉Brazilian National Flag Waving in Blue Sky

This week was the Brazilian Independence day, on 7 September, so we had a mission wide service project. I am currently loading the photos Elder Loveless took during the event to find any with wonderful me to send to you guys, since we were advised not to bring cameras to avoid losing them or being distracted from actually working. I got to wear jeans in public for the first time in forever and the sensation was quite odd.

We did not manage to baptize anyone this week, we are hitting the three standards again though which at least was a good strong end to the transfer that may have otherwise been difficult. I found out how I can overcome my weakness to stop people in the street (which has been a thorn in my side for a while now) I just knock on doors when I need to get some new people to teach. Do people still reject us, yes, lots of times. But when people accept us we generally get more than just one person if the family is home.

Miracles happened this week that helped us hit the Three Standards. We, by the three standards of our mission, need to have 15 investigators and less-active members in the chapel each sunday. This has been really hard. We have been working with a large less active family that recently sent a son on his mission, we were certain that they would come to church this week but they didn’t and we were quite disappointed. Then we started to count all the others that had showed up, members had brought enough people for us to hit the number we needed and now we have a ton more people to visit.

I will see if these photos are loading, and send any along I get a hold of, Love you guys!

Clears out the nose quickly

This week we did not have a baptism, but we confirmed our last two baptisms.

I was preparing my next planner when I realized in the next transfer I will complete one year on the mission, to me a quite terrifying prospect.

Got a little sick this past week, but I broke down, bought medicine, and asked Sister Dalton to get permission for a little rest. I rested in house a little after lunch and then left to work again in the afternoon. It is amazing how much medicine would clear something quickly. That and lots of lemons and oranges, boiled in water with ginger and a strong cough drop. Clears out the nose quickly.

Elections are next week or a little more here in Brazil. You can imagine how crazy the roads are, such a headache.

Typing on this computer makes Mormon’s efforts to engrave on the gold plates seem easy.

Love you all have a great week.

Elder Delgado is a good companion

The first week has been completed this transfer hitting the 3 standards and 2 baptisms. I will find a way to send photos another day because I am in the Lesser LAN House.

Elder Delgado is a good companion and a hard worker. He is a little taller than Elder Agre so I feel a little bit of a Napoleon complex but working on it. We need to integrate our teaching a bit better but that will come with time.

Spending so much time looking for new people and finding a ton of less active members. I’ve been talking with the Elders Quorum President about how we can reactivate all these less active irmãos so we can have more priesthood in the ward. But we keep trying.

I love you all.

First Week Run

So the first week has been completed this transfer with almost hitting the 3 standards and 2 baptisms. I will find a way to send photos another day because I am in the Lesser LAN-House.

Elder Delgado is a good companion, hard worker, a little quiet. He is taller than Elder Agre, so I feel a little bit of a Napoleon complex but working on it. We need to integrate our teaching a bit better but that will come with time.

Spending so much time looking for new people and finding a ton of less active members. I’ve been talking with the Elders Quorum President about how we can reactivate all these less active irmãos so we can have more priesthood in the ward. But we keep trying.

Today after I write this we are going  to Santo Amaro. It’s about an hour bus ride from here. I will also start my list today and send to you next week. Packages have been arriving normally without problem here. Unless you are Elder Moos who has cameras sent in the mail to here.santo-amaro

Love you all!